How to Not Be Boring

One of the keys to attracting and keeping a woman is to INTRIGUE her; that is, to tap into her cute little brain and get her thinking about, wondering about, and maybe even daydreaming about… YOU.

And one of the simplest and most effective ways to do this is to vary your presentation. In other words, vary how you present yourself so that she never quite knows what to expect.

She can and probably will have a general idea of what to expect, or even be pretty certain of what to expect… but she should never know exactly, for a fact, what to expect.

Be Unpredictable

You should weld it into your mind that women (at least young, childless women) are drawn towards unpredictability in men. They love not knowing exactly what’s going to happen from moment to moment.

They love not knowing exactly what you’ll do or say next. They love surprises, and they love the excitement (and sometimes even the anxiety) generated by the unknown.

In a woman’s mind, a predictable man is a dull man, a boring man, a passionless man, and, at best, a FRIEND.

“Heck” she thinks, “if I want to be bored, I can sit home alone and watch TV… or read a book… or surf the net. No, I want a man who adds excitement to my hum-drum life.”

Never Be Boring

Remember, a woman would rather be just about anything (even mad, sad, or anxious) than bored.

So what you want to do, what you need to do, is vary your personality, just a little, every once in a while, in order to keep her intrigued, to keep her wondering, to keep her thinking about and trying to figure out… you.

Yes, of course, you have and should have a “base” persona that you like, that you’re proud of, and that you enjoy being. You shouldn’t try to become a completely different person every time you see her — she’ll just think you’re a nut.

Just vary certain things… a little bit… every once in a while. And you’ll keep her interested.

Vary Your Presentation

In this article we talk about varying your presentation, which is perhaps the easiest way to add this much coveted aura of unpredictability and intrigue to your persona.

How do you look… usually?

How do you dress… usually?

How do you smell… usually?

How you look, dress, and smell are aspects of your presentation and thus aspects of your personality. And they’re also aspects that are easy to manipulate, easy to change, easy to vary.

I am not saying that you need to change these things — you may already have the finest clothes, the most expensive haircut, and the coolest cologne money can buy. I am just saying that, if you want to be the man of her dreams, you need to mix things up a bit, so you don’t fall into the predictability trap. Just be unpredictable, wait to reply her chat, wait three days before you call her and when you do, tell her you have been busy and end the call pretty soon telling her you got to handle some stuff because when a woman gets bored she starts looking for someone more fun. Be Unpredictable and thank me later!

Talk to you soon.

Martins.

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